Faith and Destiny....How we cope with it

sometimes I wonder, does anyone have similar problems with me?
or at least does anyone in this Earth face the same heaviest problem in his/her everyday life? to answer the question, firstly you have to know what kind of person I am
to tell you the truth, I am a kind of person who always consider things deeply
I always think as if I am the only person who often figth hardly in order to get things throughly
well....to be honest all of my thought and attitudes about those are finally considered false
today, I was given tips of how becoming a happy woman.
among those tips given, I was informed that as Human we should never feel that it is only we who always suffer of the so many problems appear. we cannot just think that other people is happier that us. we should not allow our mind thinking that the burden that we have to hold is so heavy that nobody can carry. we have to realize no people in this Earth live happily ever after even when all of dreams have come true, there is still matters need to be fixed.
everyone has their own matters, whether it is hard or not, it depends on how we hold it. it will be hard, if we think it is hard, whereas, it will simple, if we consider it simple.
our Faith and destiny depends on how we cope with it. we cannot just judge something directly without acknowledging it in the first hand.
by slowly studying subjects that come firstly in hand, we can give ourself to adapt it and take it for granted for the rest of our life. therefore, our life will be so easly to catch up.